I’ve truly loved this girl for 3 years, and she knows it. I’ve been trying to get with her for the entire time, she is 14, I am 15, same grade, 9th. I’ve done everything possible. I started out just talking a ton, mostly texting, then when she was out alone at night walking in a different town, I’d be talking to her the whole way, even though she "was fine". I was there the whole time till she got to safety. Then, when her boyfriend broke up with her I comforted her and talked to her. That goes for every time something has ever upset her. Last summer, I went and bought her flowers just for the hell of it, however she didn’t come outside to accept them, she told me to leave them on the doorstep. Of course it was 1 in the morning, but not 20 minutes later she went and got them. I have tried so hard to be as respectful and loving as I can but it is so hard since she doesn’t share that strong feelings towards me. On Christmas I bought her a pair of beautiful aquamarine earrings which she really liked and I still havn’t gotton a gift back. I’ve asked her a couple times about it but she doesn’t know what to get her. I have acted my age towards her ("perverted"), but for example 2 years ago, she actually became horny for a weekend, then on monday she was like "oh it’s not who I am". I don’t get it!! I’ve complimented her in every way possible, and everything…and don’t tell me "there’s more than one fish in the sea", this is true absolute love I can’t find someone else. I don’t want to. And she refuses to hang out with me in any way if we’re alone cause it’s "weird". I get that but still. Please help me.
Have you considered the possibility that she might not reciprocate your love towards her? Let her decided if she loves you, instead of trying to force it down her throat.
January 27th, 2010 at 6:53 am
Have you considered the possibility that she might not reciprocate your love towards her? Let her decided if she loves you, instead of trying to force it down her throat.
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