shes 16, im 17. we are in the same grade in high school and really good friends. she knows i really really, really! like her, but she isant all too into me. we arnt going out or dating or anything but i do like her. i want to give her something good for christmas because she always complains that her christmas is bad because her family doesant have a lot of money. is this a good idea. i want to know if this is to much for a girl. lots of people say it is but i cant see it being too much. will someone help, thank you. also for people saying im trying to buy her love, im not. i just want her to be happy and to "WoW" her. o yea she was born in march so aquamarine is her birthstone, just a little plus =)
http://www.kay.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product1%7C10101%7C10001%7C-1%7C372169209%7C15053%7C15053.15074.15220
I think a girl should like you for you and not what you can buy for her. A gift like this is usually something given to a love that you are already in a relationship with.
November 19th, 2009 at 3:56 pm
I think that necklace is too fancy for your ages. Also she doesn’t like you so that would put her in an awkward position. Jewelry is a big step in a DATING relationship not a friendship. Buy her a sweater.
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November 19th, 2009 at 4:05 pm
Does she like you as a lover or she just falls in love with your necklace?
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November 19th, 2009 at 4:18 pm
i think you should it is just showing that you love her as a friend i hope you so………………HOPE 4 THE BEST.A
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November 19th, 2009 at 4:46 pm
Awww, that’s beautiful! I honestly don’t think it would be too much. Especially if she never has a good Christmas. I say go for it!
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November 19th, 2009 at 5:11 pm
I think if she is not that into you it might be sort of weird for her, like you are coming on too strong because that necklace is expensive. Getting her a more casual necklace or less expensive gift would be a nice gesture though. Start slowly if you are going to make the transition from good friends to being together, she isn’t going to see you in a different light just because of one grand gesture. These things take time, don’t do anything too drastic that might push her away. Good luck!
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November 19th, 2009 at 5:51 pm
I think it would be very sweet of you to get her jewelry for Christmas.
But you should probably aim for something a little less pricey. It’s the thought that counts and I’m sure she’ll still love it if it didn’t cost you a fortune.
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November 19th, 2009 at 6:36 pm
I think a girl should like you for you and not what you can buy for her. A gift like this is usually something given to a love that you are already in a relationship with.
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November 19th, 2009 at 6:58 pm
Don’t spend too much on the girl. Your young. You’ll do better for both of you to make investments when you are old. Get a pair of boots or a jacket. It is something she can use right away and it’s something that you can use to see how well she takes care of it. Plus, your adding to her fashion wardrobe. If you live in a place where it is warmer for the winter. Buy her some walking shoes or something for her car even get her something like a shelf or mirror…anything you know she needs for her room, even a hamper, just be creative okay. Plus get a little something for a pet or a sibling.
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November 19th, 2009 at 7:34 pm
Hi, so I’m 16 and first i just have to say this necklace is really really cute. This girl doesn’t know what what she is missing. It sounds like your really into her. She might take it the wrong way. But you can even say.."you say your Christmases suck..so i wanted to make this one special." She still might take it as you trying to win her over, but if you really still feel strongly you can try. If she doesn’t melt when you say this..it will surprise me. I really hope everything works out for you. You sound like a nice guy and this girl really needs to realize there is a guy in front of her that sounds like would do anything for her. So good luck again.
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I am a girl and would fall for this..?haha
November 19th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
I like it, it’s pretty.
As for the dilemma of the situation: if you guys are good friends and you don’t think that giving her this gift would "freak" her out and ruin something, then go for it. It might even show her how much you actually care for her. Be careful though, you don’t want to make her feel really awkward around you though.
Good luck!!!!
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November 19th, 2009 at 8:49 pm
that is so sweet how you put such thought into a really lovely gift.
but that’s just the thing- it’s really too nice for someone who isn’t returning the feelings you have for her.
you could give her something a bit less extravagant, but meaningful.
one of the greatest gifts i’ve ever received was a mix cd from my friends for my 16th birthday. she made the cover art and a lyrics book all by hand- i was so touched. so maybe if you’re good at that kind of thing, you could do that with christmas songs.
if you look around, you could probably find a necklace similar to the original, but less of an investment.
keep her interests, likes, and dislikes in mind when shopping.
whatever you do, put your heart into it- that’s something to really be appreciated.
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November 19th, 2009 at 9:06 pm
I think that necklace is too much and it’s more like for my mom, not for a 16y old. You should get her something cheaper, cute and girly. Try this necklace here
http://www.giftids.com/women/products/daisy_perfume_necklace.html
It even has a solid perfume inside. Maybe you can find it in Sephora
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